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    Question How to deal with 2 agents

    A newbie in the market and in real estate, looking to buy my first home.

    A year ago I had stopped by an open house, which was advertised on the street corner on a sign. There I met a an experienced mid-aged real estate lady, who since that day became my de-facto agent, looking for homes for me in the area. This agent has sent almost weekly emails of MLS listings, most of which I would see online on a public MLS site. She has also taken her time to show us a few houses, to which she had to meet us at the location and open the place up for us.

    Enters into the picture my friend, who recently received his Real Estate license and started working in our area. This guy has now shown us a few houses and started sending us MLS listing by email as well. Coincidentally, none of which are the same as the lady has sent us, so far.

    You know where I'm going with this.

    I believe ethically I am bound to go with the lady, who has been helping me for a year to find me a home of my choice. But, do I have any LEGAL obligation to continue having her as my agent? I would like my friend to find me a home and get all the benefit.

    The market here near Twin Cities is picking up, so we are about to make a few offers.

    What do some of you seasoned agents advise me to do. Go with a long-time friend, or some unknown agent (considering I'm doing the homework myself and I don't consider either one of them to be better or worse than the other).

    Please help, I'm in crisis mode!!!

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    You don't know what you don't know and your friend doesn't know either. When a problem shows up that your friend was too inexperienced to foresee you will run the risk of losing your friendship and getting burned on the deal.

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    How do you buyr any knid of service?

    Look around and ask for recomendations from others who have bought recently. Arrange for 3 or 4 interviews with the people who seem to work best with you and then (and only then) make a choice and hire the most appropriate person to work with.

    The people you mentioned may - or may not - make the list of those you interview.

    Have a great time and remember you are the boss.

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    Your friend will not provide the value that the experienced agent brings to the table. Not to mention the experienced agent has done everything for you that you have asked for so far.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gjtrafl View Post
    Your friend will not provide the value that the experienced agent brings to the table. Not to mention the experienced agent has done everything for you that you have asked for so far.
    It does not matter who has done what at this moment. There is no shortage of people to work with. Simply contact some of them, interview a few, and make a choice.

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    Smile Still looking for an answer

    Thank you all for making comments, but none of you have tried to answer the question whether I am LEGALLY obligated to the first agent, or I can go with whoever, since I had not signed any documents for working with either one.

    Thanks

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    If you have not signed a buyers agent agreement with the agent you are not legally obligated. I you happen to write on a home that the agent had shown you first there could be an issue.

    Every one of us agents were new at some point and many of us had our first transactions with friends or family. I know veteran agents that aren't very bright, don't give their clients the attention they need and still make numerous mistakes even after being in the business many years.
    I would ask your friend if he has a mentor or someone looking over him to help him out since he is new to make sure all the bases are covered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ataslaki View Post
    I believe ethically I am bound to go with the lady, who has been helping me for a year to find me a home of my choice. But, do I have any LEGAL obligation to continue having her as my agent? I would like my friend to find me a home and get all the benefit.
    You are not ethically or legally bound to the first agent and truthfully if she had been a good agent she would have gone over your business relationship with you and had you sign a buyers rep agreement. If she is this sloppy about her business with you she might be just as sloppy when negotiating on your behalf.

    As far as your friend goes, it would be nice for them to get the benefit but you have to look out for your own interests first. If you were being audited by the IRS would you choose a seasoned tax professional to work with or give a friend the benefit by becoming your friends first client? If you think your friend is capable of representing your interests fine, but otherwise, your friend should understand that it's just business.

    What do some of you seasoned agents advise me to do. Go with a long-time friend, or some unknown agent (considering I'm doing the homework myself and I don't consider either one of them to be better or worse than the other).

    Please help, I'm in crisis mode!!!
    What work are you doing? Looking at houses on the internet? That's just one small part of the equation. It is the process that begins when you write a contract and ends at closing where you need the experienced help.

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    I would suggest that you go with that lady, since she is the one who has been doing all that hard work for you, without any consideration so far,

    In life long term relationships matter a lot, and so far with what you have told us here, she has the first right to any home, if she fails in it, that is she can't get the deal though or something, then your friend has the right to do it for you, morally speaking, legally you are not bound with anyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GovGuy View Post
    I would suggest that you go with that lady, since she is the one who has been doing all that hard work for you, without any consideration so far,

    In life long term relationships matter a lot, and so far with what you have told us here, she has the first right to any home, if she fails in it, that is she can't get the deal though or something, then your friend has the right to do it for you, morally speaking, legally you are not bound with anyone.
    Seriously, if this person who has consumed so much of your time, was truly competent, you would already be in escrow.

    Sorry, but the business of ANYTHING in today's world is simply not "fair".

    Find some agents, make some appointments, select the most appropriate - for you - and move forward.

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